Ever had somebody give you terrible news? What about uplifting news? What’s the distinction or is there a distinction?
Uplifting news – stuff or data that makes us cheerful, content, consoled, secure and approved.
Awful news – the inverse.
Thus, doubtlessly there is a distinction amongst great and awful news – read on.
Have you at any point gotten awful news however at last things turned out well or superior to anything you foreseen? Have you at any point gotten uplifting news and after some time what you thought was uplifting news wound up being not all that great?
From individual experience I can disclose to you that I have encountered each of the four –
Uplifting news that was great.
Terrible news that was awful.
Uplifting news that I thought was great yet wound up being terrible.
Terrible news that I thought was awful and wound up being great.
Confounded yet? Well I realize that after some time I was frequently befuddled about the distinction between these two clear inverse messages. In any case, at that point I discovered that occasionally terrible news for one individual can be seen as uplifting news for another person and that uplifting news to one individual after some time can be seen as awful.
Befuddled? Give me a chance to clarify.
At last it’s simply news and what makes it terrible or great or even unbiased isn’t simply the news however how we see it, judge it, assess it or respond as a result of it.
How might somebody see terrible news as great you may inquire? Or on the other hand the inverse, how might somebody see uplifting news as awful?
In a word – every one of us has a one of a kind history, encounters, convictions and values and subsequently none of us ever observe a similar thing or condition similarly.
Somebody who is a worrier, contrary, negative or fretful may see a deferral as awful when someone else who comprehends the idea of there are things we can control and there are things we can’t control so why get all furious about something you can’t control or on the off chance that you can control it get occupied.
At last everything that happens – simply happens and what we do is decipher everything in light of our desires, objectives, needs or attitudes and these are interesting for every one of us.
Give me a chance to give you two or three individual cases. Also, on the off chance that you will consider the clarification despite the fact that you might not have had the very same conditions, all things being equal I’ll be you can relate.
Before gazing my talking and preparing profession I was a national deals administrator for a global association. Long story yet the short side is I had an issue with my manager, the president and accordingly he terminated me. Terrible news, isn’t that so? Well that was all I expected to choose the time had come to start a profession that has endured more than 40 years and has enabled me to see the world (25 nations to date) and work with some enormous customers and gatherings of people. So at last this terrible news was great news.
Here’s another brisk one.
Quite a while back I proposed to my significant other and she said yes. Uplifting news right? (No judgments here please). Well over the long haul in the wake of doing my best for over fifteen years I concluded that the time had come to end it and why? Indeed, without the abhorrent points of interest, the relationship was bit by bit disintegrating my confidence, certainty and idealistic mentality and I concluded that I didn’t care for my identity getting to be in that relationship. We separated, agreeably – yet we separated. Uplifting news as I was capable – after some time – to recapture all I had lost – sincerely and profoundly.
We as a whole have our stories and we as a whole can make arrangements of uplifting news and awful news we have gotten however at last it’s all fair news.
Amid a portion of my corporate projects I share this basic idea – quit approaching your workers for uplifting news or terrible news – simply approach them for the news and after that you choose which it is. Since their definition could be totally not the same as yours.
What’s more, the other way around – as an official or supervisor don’t communicate – I have some great or terrible news – simply tell your representatives you are very brave and let every one of them translate it as they see fit in light of their own perspectives, states of mind, mentalities, experience, desires and how it may affect them by and by.